Musings From Under a Rock #1 How do people change?

I've been pondering the idea of change. For most humans, myself included, true and lasting change happens slowly.  It requires patience, persistence and grace.  I've realized that we humans typically develop in a linear fashion - one step at a time.


Occasionally massive and sudden about-face type of change happens in us, but that's rare and doesn't happen on demand.


Since our communities are groups of humans, motley and imperfect, we can expect that change will happen within us in the way that it usually happens - slowly and one step at a time.


One beautiful task of community is to walk alongside each other without pretense, listening to and encouraging, coaxing and coaching each other along the way as we contemplate, experiment with, and embrace change.


Small steps.

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